“So, you have beloved friends, people whose company you enjoy so much. But much of the time you spent together in the past was immersed in an energy pattern you no longer wish to continue.
And you find yourself falling back into this behaviour you wish to no longer continue each time you’re around them. Back into familiar patterns of exchanging energy.
Every relationship you have is an exchange of energy. And every exchange has a frequency signature that your system becomes accustomed to, even if the exchange is one you do not desire.
In addition to this, you often have fears of the relationship ending without this energy pattern there to support it.
We understand your fears. Your social networks are so dear to you. So many of you hold them as part of your identity even, so the possibility of losing a relationship becomes equated to losing a part of yourself.
We so wish to convey to you that your relationships do not end in the way that humans believe they do. Yes, you may no longer meet or speak to that person in your physical reality, but even your closest relationships are simply a reflection of an aspect of your Being, your Soul.
You fear the loss of a relationship if you no longer continue a pattern of behaviour upon which that relationship was based in the past.
We put forward that what you truly fear is the loss of that part of yourself that the seemingly external relationship was a reflection of.
What will you be if you no longer engage in this pattern? Who will you be without it?
It may feel like a loss, but it is a shifting. A de-emphasizing of one aspect of yourself that then creates space. Space for others aspects of your being to come to the forefront, to receive more energy.
As you grow and expand, you do not discard old aspects of yourself the way you leave clothes you are no longer wearing behind you on the floor.
Those aspects are part of you, even if you no longer express their patterns and behaviours. They receive less of your direct conscious energy and take up less space within your Being, but they are there, now integrated into the whole in a more balanced and harmonious way that serves you.
So, do not fear the apparent ending of relationships as you grow and expand, leaving certain patterns and behaviours behind.
Shift your focus to the space you are creating for beautiful, soul-affirming relationships for which you currently have no room.
See that you are creating new relationships, or even nourishing the growth and transformation of existing ones, rather than ending old ones.”
~~Archangel Michael