Protection is one of my reasons for grievance. Don’t forget what that person did in the past to make sure they can’t do it to me again in the future.
If I just let it go, if I don’t remember the wrong, history will repeat itself
There’s quite a lot of blame in grievance. And injustice
Can I simultaneously hold on to grievance and move past it?
Is it simply about moving past, letting go of, my grievance or somehow disassembling or dissolving it?
Trying to let go of a thing that you strongly see as an injustice is not really possible, is it?
Grievance needs a strong emotional component, whether blame, anger, powerlessness, indignation. Without that strong emotional bit, is grievance just a remembered event?
